Giving ourselves free
Dec 17th, 2008 by larrybarkdull
A principle of deliverance that is widely overlooked is the simple act of charity. When times are the hardest and there seems no hope on the horizon, we might try reaching out to someone and expect, in the process, to nudge open the door of deliverance. A recent example of generosity taught me how Zion people can save others and in the process find their deliverance.
A few weeks ago I became aware of a family that was expecting nothing for Christmas…again! I could count three consecutive Christmas mornings on which they had awakened to nothing under the tree. Not that that should matter. Christmas, as we know, is so much more than packages and bows. But it does matter, especially when there are children.
So I checked my wallet and found it bare. Being a professional writer and working in a non-profit company, I depend on royalties and grants for the projects we support. Royalties are a few months off, and the grant we had been working on for nearly two years was once again delayed. If prayer and fasting could have landed it in our coffers, we would have had the money months ago. Now it seemed more distant that ever.
When I thought of my destitute friends, all I could do was mourn. I took my concern to the Lord, and asked, “What can I do? I have nothing to give.” A thought entered my mind, Yes you do. As I mulled over the answer, the impression of other friends came to me-some who were also struggling financially or with serious issues. Frequently, I had prayed for these people. I asked, “I should approach them?” I felt a little ashamed asking people whom had little to give. But the impression was that by giving they would be blessed. I arose and began to make calls.
I should point out that many of my friends are artists whom I have helped in my foundation. They have art and product, but not too much money. When I called them, I explained that I had a friend who was in need and would they be willing to contribute some product. What happened next was a miracle. My simple request to help one family grew within 48 hours to impact nearly thirty families! Each time I went to pick up gifts from one person, he (or she) would say, “I know of someone whom I would like to help, too.” Then I would call my network and additional commitments were made. When I finally had gathered everything for the first family, I shipped four large boxes of gifts, and I still had many more to gifts to pass around. I suddenly understood why there are no poor in Zion and why Zion is always described in terms of beauty and abundance.
Then came the miracles to my giving friends. One couple received an unexpected contract for $10,000. On the same day, a husband who had lost his employment was offered a new job. Another family that had been waiting for two years for a contract finally received that one plus an additional contract. A woman who had been struggling with a serious question received an answer. And our foundation received its grant.
What a powerful principle is a simple act of charity!
Giving ourselves free
I learned a great lesson from my generous friends. Deliverance seems to pivot on our willingness to shed selfishness and summon the courage to give and extend charity. The people of Limhi had tried every conceivable way to deliver themselves and could not. It was only when they began to take care of the widows and orphans that the Lord’s deliverance came.
This powerful principle-charity opens the door to deliverance–is so simple that we often miss it. As we know, giving time, talents and means can be manifested telestially, terrestrially and celestially. A telestial person will not give unless he is forced to or if he can receive something in return. A terrestrial person will give if he already has something to give. A celestial person will give despite his circumstances because he knows that the Lord will compensate him “an hundredfold” and will grant him his desire to give again. This quality of charitable giving breaks the bonds of captivity. With the unselfish motivation of pure love, we can literally give ourselves free!
We recall that despite a lifetime of extending charity, Job, in the darkest hour of his life, was required to give yet one more time and his charity liberated him: “And the Lord turned the captivity of Job, when he prayed for his friends.” Most certainly, his past giving mattered, but it did not carry as much weight as the present opportunity to give. After all that Job had suffered, the single thing that seemed to stand between him and deliverance was one more charitable act. When Job was able to reach deep within himself and find the strength to give one more time, he was set free. Likewise, when the widow gave to Elijah rather than give to her son and herself, she obtained deliverance from the famine, and later she experienced a type of deliverance when the Lord mercifully restored her son from the jaws of death.
Throughout our mortal journey with the Lord, we learn to love him by emulating him, and in the process we become love. If charity is the pure love of Christ, then we, like Christ whom we love, are charity. Elder Dallin H. Oakes said charity is not an act but what we become. And what we have become holds sufficient power to deliver us.
When people learn to extend charity, they become Zion. While the world seeks safety with armies and treaties, while it looks for security in rising markets and fat portfolios, and while it tries untold numbers of options to obtain deliverance, Zion people simply apply acts of charity.
See Mosiah 21:17
See Dallin H. Oaks, “The Challenge to Become,” Ensign, Nov 2000
Thank you Brother Barkdull for putting into words what we have been learning too. It is so exciting to be the link for the Lord to bless his children who are so deserving!
We have kept this amazing story quietly in our family for three years, but I feel like sharing it now, because we have learned so much.
We visited a family, the Almeidas, in Brazil when we went there to pick up our missionary daughter. We visited a lot of other families, but when we returned home, we could not forget the Ameidas and the spiritual high we had during our visit. They are so obedient, under the most trying circumstances.
Brother Almeida is a returned missionary and had some training, but couldn’t come up with the $350.00 for a liscence, so he lost his job opportunity. When we met him he was working for a grocery store and bringing home old produce helped them survive. They live in a two room house with five kids. In Brazil the only way one can go to a university is to have help. There are no loans, and wages are too low to save enough to go. The perpetual education program comes into play here, but Brother Almeida was turned down twice because of his age, 32.
He had enough faith to apply and be accepted to the University and then fast and pray and turn the problem of how to pay to the Lord.
We didn’t know this was happening. We just felt a strong impresseion to e-mail and ask what it was we are supposed to help them with. It turned out they needed $160.00 a month to pay the monthly tuition and he continued to work and go to night school. Then in June 2008, he had to start doing student teaching and other projects plus go to night classed, leaving no time for work.
We figured $800.00 a month would cover all their needs. Also in Brazil a student cannot leave school, earn money and return. They have to start over from the beginning!
So there was no way we could let brother Almeida down, as he will graduate in May.
I wrote letters to all his old missionary companions in the U.S. and one covered one month, and another is sending $200. a month. Still the rest was way out of our budget, as we have 5 of our 10 children in college at this time.
Approaching friends didn’t help, it seems they feel like it is not their project. (this could be my approach or maybe not selecting who to ask prayerfully enough, I don’t know.)
However my husband, the only breadwinner of our family, is in sales. We have seen him be very successful when we had three missionaries out at the same time for a year. Now we are seeing the same thing for the Almeida family. Even with our huge monthly outgo, including stupid credit card debt, (we are not the best money managers) the $800.00 we are sending them every month has been there. It is up $200. because of the exchange rate changes and just a little extra.
It is a real miracle we are living and we are not going without any needs. We certainly are not buying furniture or going on trips etc. But, it is amazing how the Lord has made this all happen. Money comes from extra sales for my husband and totally unexpected places. Just yesterday we received $300.00 in a Christmas card from an old IOU, we never expected.
In the meantime, I have quit worrying how we would be able to send that much to the Almeidas every month. Now we are thinking how the Lord wants us to continue to give to others, so we will continue to be blessed. It truly is the answer to these economic hard times and the answer of how to become a Zion people. It keeps life in perspective and helps us grow spiritually. What a blessing this experience has been!!
Father Abraham is my role model now. I am on the lookout for those who I can assist, even when it feels I have nothing to give. A smile or a hug are free.
I hope you continue inspiring us to work towards becoming Zion.
Sincerily,
Jessi Christianson
Thank you Jessi and Bro Barkdull. I generally try to do things or / help others on my own. After reading your stories, I will try harder to involve other people in the helping process.